Kate Winslet’s at it again! When will she learn? Or has she?

Back in the UK for a couple of days, which means I have time to read the tabloids that are pressed in my hands every time I venture near a tube station.

Kate Winslet was on the front page last night.  “Nothing could distract her from her new boyfriend, Burberry model Louis Dowler,” read the caption.

You may remember a few months ago I mentioned her mistakes as she broke up with then-hubby Sam Mendes after he revealed that being faithful to just one sexual partner was not his idea of

a good life.  My point was that this illustrated one of our 6 Do’s to be Married and Happy–

look at the person you’re with, not who you WISH you were with.  If she had, she could have avoided a lot of heartbreak.

Will she look this time?  Since she’s with a model and their raison d’etre (that’s reason for being for

you non-Francophiles) is to look good, what are the chances he’ll be real with her about his

intentions?  Would she be willing to listen?

If you’ve fallen into some of the same traps, here’s a tool.  You can always ask yourself “What do I know

that I’m denying I know or pretending not to know here?”  Of course then you have to be willing to

recognize the answer when the universe sends it to you.  It can avoid a lot of heartbreak and trauma and

drama if it allows you to avoid a relationship which wouldn’t work–to say nothing of blocking the possibility of

one that works actually turning up for you.  But then, many people aren’t willing to look at the future in

that way, they’d rather find out the slow, dramatic, painful way.  It’s just a choice!  What do you choose?

About Kacie Crisp

Dr. Kacie Crisp has been involved in facilitating others’ lives and bodies for her entire working life. As a therapist with emotionally disturbed children, chiropractor in the US and Findhorn spiritual community, and now as a licensed facilitator of Access Consciousness, her great joy is to watch clients expand their lives.

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